What a wonderful day this has been. I got a jump start on my birthday today, beginning with my free birthday coffee, any way I want it, from Starbucks. Let me just say that I LOVE coffee, so this was a great start. My friend and partner for the day at work brought me lunch, then my sweet friend Libby told me she wanted to treat me to nails and a pedicure as a bday gift (god knows I need it). When we realized that today would be the best day for both of us, I called my parents house to talk to my dad but before I could even ask my brother agreed to watch the girls until we all went to dinner later. Now my brother is 5 years younger than me and has no kids of his own so whenever he offers to watch my girls it warms my heart. (I have 3 younger brothers and they couldn't love the girls more. Nothing is sweeter to me than to see my baby brothers taking care of my kids.) So we go straight from work to the nail salon, work shoes and all. I didn't care though, I haven't had my nails or toes done in sooooo long and it felt very good. From there I went straight to the restaurant to have dinner with my parents, my baby girls, my brothers and their adorable girlfriends. Dinner was delicious and it is always a good time when we all get together. The girls were very well behaved, and I was a proud mommy! I have always taken my kids to restaurants with me, good, bad or ugly. They are usually pretty good but Sophia is at that age that she just doesn't want to sit still and that can be quite challenging when you're trying to get her to sit in a high chair for an extended amount of time. I do allow the kids to play musical chairs ( I want to sit by meme, now I want to sit by uncle Ronnie...and so on) for a little bit, but not once our food has arrived and I do not let them get down from the table. I think it is reasonable to expect some moving a round from them at these ages, but I also like to be aware of other diners and most definitely the servers( small children and a tray full of hot plates do not mix). After dinner we drove home and to my surprise both of the girls were still awake. Usually I put Sophia to bed first , we read our book 2 times, then off with the light and I rock her to sleep. Once she is asleep I take Se in and we read a story of her choosing then she goes to sleep. Well tonight we got home late, they were both tired (so was momma), and so I decided to try to do them both at the same time. Now we have tried this in the past but the seemed to just rile each other up.One would listen to the story, one would want to play, next thing I'd know they were both playing and I had just about given up. But tonight it worked beautifully, we read Selih's book first, the Phia's book twice, then off with the light. I rocked Phia a bit and they were both asleep in no time. A piece of cake, I think this will be our new and improved bedtime routine! The perfect end to a quite perfect day.
Now a little something else I'd like to share,while I was sitting in the spa chair earlier being pampered, the lady doing my pedicure told me that she was also a single mom.She told me that her husband had died 4 years ago and that it has been just her and her daughter ever since. All her family lives in Vietnam and she was left to care for her daughter, 15 at the time, all on her own. She went on to tell me how hard it had been, how her daughter had grieved for her father, waking up crying for her daddy, this on top of the usual challenges of raising a teenager. It's much better now, she told me. I could tell by her smile this was true. Her daughter is now 19 and going to college, she looked so proud when she told me this. I sat there as this lady massaged my feet, painted my toes, and all I could think is just how lucky I am, and how strong she is. This has been an eye opening year for me, and I really admired her as sheshared this piece of her life. People have to overcome horrible, torturous obstacles everyday, so who the hell am I to complain about a little stress? I know in a few days I will be grumbling about the laundry, or the hairball that the damn cat hacked up in the hallway, but it is always good to put things into perspective. I love when these moments happen, when you feel silly for your complaints, and grateful for your life and all the people in it!
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